"I want her back but I don't know where to start." This is a common problem among men who have broken up from their girlfriends. Winning an ex back is not impossible, but it can be complicated by the motivations and situations which led to the break up. However, you can significantly boost the chances of being with her again through properly weighed actions.
The Time to be Away
Time heals all wounds, and this also applies to relationships. Time will help both of you to clear your mind. If the breakup is still fresh, both of you have short tempers. Jealousy, pride, anger and pain may trigger the wrong words and the wrong actions. Give it a few weeks to cool down. However, do not procrastinate always. Don't act too late; or else, she may get a new partner.
To Call or Not to Call
It is important to maintain communication after breakup, even if it is somehow painful and awkward. After all, you are mature people now. Check how she's been doing once in a while. But do not tell her that "I want her back" right away. It is also a big mistake to call or text her every minute. She may perceive you as a desperate stalker.
Don't smother her with gifts. You can give her flowers to show your sincerity but don't give a large bouquet. With flowers, less is more right now. Avoid giving her too expensive gifts because she may think that you are buying her off. Sometimes, words of apology and occasional words of affection can win her back faster.
Apology vs. Self-Valuation
Whoever has the fault that caused the break up, do not make a rag out of yourself. Don't say "I want her back badly! I will say that it is entirely my fault; just come back to me!" Be sincere with your apology but keep your cool. Build in her mind an image of the new you, one who is more mature in handling relationships.
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