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Time can make someone realize that breaking up with a partner was a mistake. However, after hurtful things have been said and done, getting back with your girlfriend needs a lot of contemplation before execution. First, you must ask yourself, should I get back with her in the first place?
It is essential to assess the situation. Why did the two of you break up in the first place? Did she cheat on you or did you cheat on her? If it is a profound offense that caused the break up, then the best medicine is time. If you are planning to make up so soon, the wounds may still be fresh. The tendency for the both of you is to be carried away by either grief or anger. And the results will be far from pleasing.
Meditate and know what you truly want. Have you learned from the break up? Make a plan of what you are willing to do and sacrifice when you get back together. Assess the chances and see which is the best scenario: not to see each other again, remain as friends or get back as a renewed couple. Face it — not every break up needs making up.
When you are already sure that "yes" is the answer to the question of whether or not you should get back with your ex, then do your moves. It is like swimming in the pool: You test the water first with your feet before diving in. The keyword is respect. Politely ask her if there is a chance to be together again. It will not hurt to take things slowly. Be honest with your words and show her that you are better now.
With the right combination of time, patience and respect, your question of should I get back with her may be answered with a magical and romantic reunion.
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